Question: I bet you all know them, those fucking asshole (brothers/sisters) or whatever that spend spend spend and then come asking you for a loan.
You grew up with these kind of people and feel obligated to loan them some money, well at least until you get a bit older and become smarter and say u don’t have any money. Yeah big brother is sometime very stupid.
Anyway, what the fuck do you do to get back $5000 after you were stupid enough to loan them in the first place?
Answer: you’re screwed. in general, if a family member asks to borrow money, think about how much you can afford to simply give and don’t expect any of it back.
you’ll save a lot of heartache and aggravation. You could try the same thing they did. Go to them and say you have a money problem and how much can they lend you or you’re gonna lose the car/house. If you don’t at first succeed, keep doing it and eventually you’ll get something from them. If it works well, you will get alot after doing it several times till you’re caught up. If it works poorly, you may be able to whine about just making the bills this month and get a few bucks here and there. If this idea makes you ill, you are out $5000. and the next time they say they are about to lose the house, you’re answer is “we are too, it’s all we can do to make the payment this month (and every month).” If you give them an ultimatum, you just lost your family for $5000. Better to play poor and keep your family so they’ll quit asking for money.
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